When I was a boy, imaginary friends were never part of my
inner circle. As an adult, I have an imaginary girlfriend. She’s real, actually
(her name is Jennifer Love Hewitt), though only in my imagination is she my
better half.
Turns out, I’m not the only adult with a sham sweetheart.
By now, sports fan or not, you are familiar with
the Deadspin story that made a mete’oric impact. Manti Te’o, a former notre dame
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linebacker, had a girlfriend who, like the Astrodome turf or WALL•E’s
intelligence, was artificial.
Lennay Kekua, whom Te’o dated for two years despite never meeting and who died of leukemia during
Te’o’s senior season, never existed. She was “born” via a computer, in the manner
Gary and Wyatt created Lisa in
Weird Science, though her being required no hooked-up doll. The heroine in a fable,
she was killed off last September, made to suffer the same fate as Nikki and
Paulo, from Lost, and myriad
other despised TV characters. Four months later, she returned to haunt Te’o
from beyond the grave, wreaking notre damage throughout cyberspace.
Te’o, say it ain’t so’o.
If, as he claimed in an off-camera ESPN interview last Friday, he didn’t perpetrate the hoax, he certainly perpetuated
it, basking in the attention, which those at notre dame tend to do. Is he a
gullible young man who helps Nigerian princes transfer large sums of money out
of the country? Is he a duplicitous, publicity-craving schemer — a lyin’
Hawaiian? Is he a bit of both?
I find it difficult to measure Te’o’s complicity in this
bizarre saga, just as I find it difficult to find fault with the confused author
of this
USA Today article. Who’s to say
what’s real anymore? Is Te’o’s relationship real? Is realationship real? (No and no.)
The article’s opening sentence drips with irony. The seventh
word, an amalgam of
real and relationship, shows up in an article about a relationship that
was anything but real. That word, like Lennay Kekua, the Loch Ness Monster and
portions of A Million Little Pieces,
is not real. Really.
Bereft of oxygen, still Kekua breathed. Deceit nourished
her. A voracious, 24/7 news cycle was her lifeblood. She continued to exist,
living off lies, running on M.T. Empirical she was not. Fantastical she was. In
her gran—
Oh! My! God! Love
Hewitt’s agent just called. She said Love wants to get together, and she gave
me Love’s digits: (800) 555-1234. A real phone number for a real girlfriend. If
you’ll excuse me, readers, I’ve got a call to make.
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Me and my "girlfriend" in New York City. Don't we make a cute couple? |